On Our Best Behaviour: The Price Women Pay to Be Good by Elise Loehnen Paperback

Description: On Our Best Behaviour by Elise Loehnen A provocative manifesto on what it means for women to be good – and what happens when we stop.A stunning, big and bold encyclopedia of how to live LISA TADDEOYou will finish this book and immediately hand your copy over to your best friend JENNIFER ANISTONI left feeling energized and galvanized to take back my true f**king freedom JAMEELA JAMILIn this groundbreaking exploration of the ancient rules that women unwittingly follow in order to be considered good, journalist and podcast host Elise Loehnen explains that these impulses – for instance, to show restraint, to be selfless or to prove ourselves in a male-dominated workplace – are ingrained in us by a patriarchal culture that reaps the benefits. So, what would happen if we stopped trying to be good?Provocative and bold, On Our Best Behaviour reveals an enlightening path towards a more balanced, fulfilled way to live.Astute, radical and utterly compelling KATHERINE MAYA guide to liberation and a return to the authentic feminine self GABOR MATÉBrilliantly reframes our toxic cultural programming LORI GOTTLIEB FORMAT Paperback CONDITION Brand New Author Biography Elise Loehnen is the host of Pulling the Thread. She has co-written twelve books, five of which were New York Times bestsellers. Elise was the chief content officer of goop – a lifestyle and e-commerce company – where she co-hosted The goop Podcast and The goop Lab on Netflix. Previously, she was the editorial projects director of Condé Nast Traveler. Elise lives in Los Angeles with her husband and two sons. Review In On Our Best Behavior — a raw cri de coeur, penetrating social analysis, and revealing personal reflection — Elise Loehnen deftly deconstructs one of the central ideological buttresses of patriarchal society: the shaming of women for having human desires, strengths, capacities and strivings of body, mind, and soul. Doing so, she provides a guide to liberation and a return to the authentic feminine self. -- Gabor Maté MD, author of THE MYTH OF NORMALA stunning, big and bold encyclopedia of how to live – the first post-pandemic book to take our latest measurements and provide something fresh to comfort, embolden, enlighten and enrich who we are today. Loehnen is never instructive but always right. The book never flags and each section has a takeaway for how to live wiser, and an anecdote to help you feel less alone. On Our Best Behavior is nothing short of a tangible necessity in our new intangible world -- Lisa Taddeo, author of THREE WOMENWith equal parts wit, wisdom, erudition, and warmth, author Elise Loehnen takes us on a guided journey through history, culture, and our own psychologies to not just investigate the limiting effects of Patriarchal thinking in womens lives, but to free them. Pleasure, connection, trust, and joy - all these and more await the reader lucky enough to spend time in conversation with a truly remarkable mind. Half historical docent, half big sister with a hot cup of tea, read this author and change your life -- Terrence Real, author of USWhat if women finally found freedom – because we gave it to ourselves? In On Our Best Behavior, Elise Loehnen brilliantly reframes our toxic cultural programming and helps us to see that what we thought were our sins are actually our greatest virtues. This book is the gift we have all been waiting for -- Lori Gottlieb, author of MAYBE YOU SHOULD TALK TO SOMEONEElise Loehnen is absolutely excellent and this book is one of the most important books Ive read in the last decade. It explores some of the main ways women have been insidiously conditioned subconsciously and consciously by society and culture. Please read this book, I found it liberating and we can only change what we are aware of! -- Poppy JamieA reimagining of our sins on a biblical scale, On Our Best Behaviour is astute, radical and utterly compelling -- Katherine MayThe feelings On Our Best Behaviour envoked were quite extraordinary. I turned every page feeling less like I was alone for thinking so many of my thoughts. I have never read a book that has so immediately allowed me to feel as though so much of what I felt I had to do and to be wasnt what I needed to do and be at all. This book feels like a long overdue turning point for women. I know this book, in full, part, or even a line, will allow a shift in the mind of every woman who has felt or feels she needs to be GOOD to have the life she wants -- Pippa Vosper, author of BEYOND GRIEFThis enlightening read explores the ways we learn to practise self-denials as women through the lends of the seven deadly sins and the devastating price we pay for it * Stylist *Loehnen uses the seven deadly sins to track the ways in which women are encouraged to mute their own desires. It is a manifesto for happiness rather than busyness, for pleasure rather than fasting — a plea to stop racing towards a place that does not exist * Sunday Times Style *Beautiful, intelligent, meaningful work -- Shauna Niequist, author of I GUESS I HAVENT LEARNED THAT YETThis is a really important book -- Chelsea HandlerOn Our Best Behavior by the brilliant Elise Loehnen caused a tectonic shift inside me in terms of how I see myself, my mother, my daughter, my sister, my friends, and the whole world around me. It brought so much into crystal clear focus. I was shaking my head wildly, doing call & response with the pages as I entered each new chapter in awe and wonder. If clarity, understanding, compassion and peace are interesting to you, drop everything and read this book. You will never see "good" the same way again. This book will set you free -- Jennifer Rudolph Walsh, editor of HUNGRY HEARTSLoehnens book is a whirlwind of fury about the way the Seven Deadly Sins have been co-opted to keep us small and obedient * Sunday Telegraph *The book is engagingly alive to the complexities involved * Sydney Morning Herald *Youre going to love this books combination of history and argument and righteousness and kindness * Cool Story podcast *Your book, at its essence, is pulling the thread of some pretty long held beliefs and potentially the fabric of society as we know it * ABC Radio Melbourne *If you are a people pleaser, feel that you sacrifice your own needs, wants, feelings, and parts of your identity in order to feel loved and accepted, this book is perfect for you. It would also suit teenage girls, women in their 20s and anyone questioning their internal happiness * Glam Adelaide *[On Our Best Behaviour] is a thought-provoking read that holds up a mirror to society . . . I devoured this book, even breaking out the highlighters and sticky tabs to mark my favourite quotes. It puts into words experiences I, and many other women, have known but may not have had the words to articulate until now. An absolute must read piece of non-fiction this year * Fashion Journal *A deep dive into the everyday challenges faced by 30- and 40-something women, and an insightful look into the deeper societal forces at play. If you are Gen X you will feel * Primer: 21 of the Best Books We Read This Year *An engaging work that offers an opportunity for pause and reflection regarding our daily choices * Kirkus Reviews *A deep dive into my own psyche of questioning everything -- Sara Haines * The View *You will finish this book and immediately hand your copy over to your best friend -- Jennifer AnistonA fascinating read . . . it blows your mind. I highly recommend this book . . . I left feeling energized and galvanized to take back my true f**king freedom. And I hope it has the same impact on you -- Jameela Jamil * iWeigh * Promotional A daring, provocative manifesto on what it means for women to be good – and what happens when we stop Details ISBN1526651947 Author Elise Loehnen Pages 384 Year 2024 ISBN-10 1526651947 ISBN-13 9781526651945 Publication Date 2024-03-14 UK Release Date 2024-03-14 Publisher Bloomsbury Publishing PLC Format Paperback Subtitle The Price Women Pay to Be Good Country of Publication United Kingdom DEWEY 305.42 Audience General Imprint Bloomsbury Publishing PLC Place of Publication London AU Release Date 2024-07-29 We've got this At The Nile, if you're looking for it, we've got it. With fast shipping, low prices, friendly service and well over a million items - you're bound to find what you want, at a price you'll love! TheNile_Item_ID:158742243;

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